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Love alone won’t close the gap.
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Inside, it feels more like roommates than partners.
Quiet drift feels normal… until it doesn’t.
We work with couples who still function, but no longer feel close.
Our approach helps you name the quiet distance, rebuild emotional connection, and make progress before things fall apart.
The Relationship Quiz shows you where the drift began and gives you a safe next step before silence hardens into “this is just how we are.”
It’s not big fights. It’s not betrayal.
It’s the cold distance that crept in while life got busy.
It’s the way you talk about everything except what matters.
You function fine but don’t feel close.
You miss feeling wanted. Chosen. Understood.
You’ve stopped trying because nothing seems to work.
You can feel hurt without there being a villain.
No one taught you how to do this part of love.
That’s where we come in.
From Roommates to Real Partners
I know what it feels like to lie in bed next to someone you love and feel a mile apart.
Years ago, my wife and I looked like the perfect couple. Inside, we were just co-managing life. The warmth was fading. We almost lost each other before I understood what was happening. After 25 years of marriage (and mistakes), I’ve seen how quickly love dulls into routine. That’s why I created the Relationship Quiz: to help couples notice what’s slipping away before it’s too late.
"People talk about things being life-changing, and that's almost a cliche, but I feel like I found life. I feel like we found a way to be happy."
Dorry and Harry fell in love with each other later in life, each with established routines and preferences. In moving in together, however, neither wanted to change for the other, leaving Dorry feeling isolated and Harry feeling restricted
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they rediscovered what brought them together. With a new appreciation for each other’s perspectives, they learned to create "our way" instead of "his way" or "her way."
Now, Dorry and Harry enjoy a balanced life together. They share joys and struggles while maintaining time and space for themselves, allowing them to grow as a couple and as individuals.
"We were getting the value in one session from him that it was taking four or five with a therapist."
After sending their youngest off to college, Julie and Jim found themselves staring across the dinner table with nothing to say. Years spent focused on parenting and careers left them feeling like strangers.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, Julie and Jim rediscovered what had first drawn them together. They learned to communicate in ways that truly resonated and created a safe space for real conversation.
Now, Julie and Jim have rediscovered the joy of being together, sharing plans for new adventures, exploring hobbies side-by-side, and savoring this beautiful new chapter. Every dinner feels like a first date, and they’re falling in love with each other all over again.
"We had done some therapy before but I wanted us to do more than just cope. You showed us a way, and the improvements and growth we've made — the feeling of hope — is mind-blowing."
Lisa and Terry felt like arguing was the only thing they did together. Counseling had only shown them how far apart they’d grown. They wondered if the best years were behind them and if it was time to move on.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they gained insight into the “why” behind their needs and reactions—and learned to understand each other’s, too. Realizing they wanted the same things, they found the courage to give their marriage another chance, this time with tools for productive communication and problem-solving.
Today, Lisa and Terry still have their differences, but fighting is no longer all they do together. Date nights, thoughtful notes, and intentional conversations are helping them build the relationship they both want. Their love feels renewed, and they’re finding joy in each other once more.
From Stuck to Rebuilding Trust
Instead of just patching up arguments, our program helps you and your partner truly understand and move past repeated disagreements. This opens the door to more peace and better teamwork in your relationship.
We don’t try to fix you. We help you understand what’s going on and give you practical tools so you can find each other again in a way that sticks from the first session.
Quiet disconnection does not fix itself. We help couples spot the early signs of drift before resentment sets in.
"We have been happier and more at peace than we have in many, many years thanks to Todd!"
Michael thought Jan never did things “right,” while Jan felt Michael was too demanding. Over time, they drifted into separate lives under the same roof. But a health scare made them realize how much they still needed each other.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they each committed to personal growth. Michael learned to be more patient and supportive, while Jan focused on building confidence and expressing her needs. With new respect for each other, they found ways to communicate openly and rebuild a partnership rooted in empathy and understanding.
Now, Michael and Jan feel like partners again. They support each other’s needs, share activities, and find comfort in knowing they’re truly there for one another. Their love has a fresh start, and they cherish each moment together.
"Working with Todd gave us tools for working on our relationship and for taking responsibility for our personal growth. He really helped us turn things around."
Rochelle and Rob found themselves worlds apart, both politically and emotionally. Resentment simmered beneath the surface, and a near-infidelity had damaged trust. They couldn’t find a way back to one another.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, they spent time understanding each other’s perspectives and rebuilding trust. Gaining insight into their personality differences helped them communicate and work together, despite ongoing differences.
Today, Rochelle and Rob feel like true partners. They know how to support each other with respect without having to agree on everything, and they’ve built trust that allows them to be honest and open. Their relationship is now rooted in understanding and mutual appreciation.
"This is no cookie-cutter approach. Instead, he worked with us to find tools that help because they are unique to us."
Tom constantly worried about money and felt unable to speak up, often overshadowed by Sarah’s strong personality. Meanwhile, Sarah was tired of being the one in charge of everything and felt drained by Tom’s endless worry.
In Todd’s 16-Week Revitalize Your Relationship program, Tom gained the confidence to assert himself, and Sarah learned to step back and give him room. Together, they found ways to ease Tom’s worries, letting Sarah feel more at peace. They also rediscovered the deep connection that had kept them together over the years.
Now, Tom and Sarah share responsibilities with mutual respect. They support each other’s needs and have rekindled the love and connection they feared was fading. They face life as true partners, strengthened by understanding and balance.
It’s not therapy. And for many couples, that’s exactly why it works.
From Silence to Understanding
"Todd's approach gives actual tools and solutions and our communication is opening up again. We can take what we’ve learned and use it for the rest of our lives. And that's a huge difference from typical counseling programs"
After 22 years together, Wendy and John S. felt more like business partners than life partners. Focused on daily tasks and parenting, they felt disconnected. Past marriage counseling kept things civil but didn’t close the distance.
In Todd’s 16-Week Recouple program, they discovered each other’s personality styles which gave them empathy for each other’s way of being. They started spending meaningful time together and through weekly check-ins, rebuilding trust and deepening their connection.
Wendy and John now feel joyful being with each other. They built a safe space to tackle big concerns together. Instead of feeling stuck, they find solutions that strengthen their bond.
For over 20 years, I’ve helped couples face the quiet distance that erodes connection. What I bring isn’t theory, but a grounded way to help you notice what’s really happening, and find a path back to each other.
No. That is why it often helps when therapy has not. We focus on real emotional shifts and practical steps you can use right away.
That is okay. Many couples start with just one partner. You do not both need to be all in. You only need the willingness to look.
Yes. A Clarity Call is available. It is a no-pressure way to ask questions and see if this approach fits.
Therapy often targets conflict symptoms or the past. We focus on what is happening right now between you and give you tools to reconnect without rehashing old fights.
Yes. Many couples wait until things feel heavy. This process meets you where you are and helps you take the next right step.
For couples who still love each other but feel the connection buried. A 16-week private journey to rebuild trust, warmth, and intimacy.
For partners stuck in limbo who need clarity before making big decisions. A focused, 3-session process to name what’s happening, gauge readiness, and find the right path forward together.
4 free videos, 4 minutes each revealing simple truths no one teaches you about why you're drifting apart.
You don’t have to decide right now. Most couples just want to know the right next step. That’s where a Clarity Call comes in.
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